Archives For Living

Observations, lessons, and miscellany on living life.

This is post was originally published October 26, 2011 on the now-defunct Warms blog. I thought it was worth re-sharing for this time of year.

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Warms [was] a platform that bridges the surprise and substance delivered by physical gift products with the emotion and versatility offered by digital videos and e-gifts. In doing so we [paid] very close attention to the reveal because it is through a layered unveiling that we can deliver a richer and more memorable gift experience. It’s perhaps not as obvious or easy as it sounds.

Greeting card companies, florists, e-card senders, and even chocolatiers all fall short. They may make nice/funny/tasty/beautiful products but they deliver shallow, one-dimensional experiences. A remarkable gift encompasses way more than just the object – and of course remarkability is always judged by the receiver.

Here are the six essential ingredients of a great gift…

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People ask me, ‘What is the use of climbing Mount Everest?’ and my answer must at once be, ‘It is of no use.’ There is not the slightest prospect of any gain whatsoever. Oh, we may learn a little about the behaviour of the human body at high altitudes, and possibly medical men may turn our observation to some account for the purposes of aviation. But otherwise nothing will come of it. We shall not bring back a single bit of gold or silver, not a gem, nor any coal or iron… If you cannot understand that there is something in man which responds to the challenge of this mountain and goes out to meet it, that the struggle is the struggle of life itself upward and forever upward, then you won’t see why we go. What we get from this adventure is just sheer joy. And joy is, after all, the end of life. We do not live to eat and make money. We eat and make money to be able to live. That is what life means and what life is for.

George Mallory

Pic or It Didn’t Happen

September 13, 2014 — 1 Comment

A couple weeks ago I caught the Fujiya & Miyagi show at La Vitrola. Four or five years ago I licensed a couple of their tracks for background on the overview videos for Cinemin Swivel and Slice, (just a warm-up for their “Uh” appearance soon after in Breaking Bad) and have loosely kept in touch since. Great musicians, great guys! I chatted with David and Matt after the show and, despite being a fan, I left without asking for a group photo. Partly I forgot, but partly I’m just not into the starstruck fan thing. But a memento would have been nice – oh well.

Likewise, a few weeks ago I hosted a casual patio happy hour with some old colleagues from my time several years ago at Airborne Entertainment/Mobile (loved that team!). It was a smaller group than years past but it was nonetheless a nice visit. Alas, none of us remembered to take a picture.

Then yesterday at Montreal ComicCon I was within a few metres of Hulk Hogan. I’m not really a fan, and they were discouraging renegade snapshots, but I suppose I should have captured proof of my proximity. Right? That’s the internet thing to do, yeah?

Anyways, these “incidents” reminded me of how bad I can be at the whole “pic or it didn’t happen” game.

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Ode to a Tree

August 29, 2014 — Leave a comment

I have a fondness for trees. They’re beautiful, stoic, generous. They provide scenery, nests, shade, rustling, colour, and metaphors.

Fall 2013

Fall 2013

Everyday this week my (urban) neighbourhood has been abuzz with the sounds of chainsaws and a woodchipper. One block over they’ve been systematically dismantling a giant tree that towered over the area. It was a truly huge tree – at least 12 storeys – and it looked healthy and full, with a lush green canopy broadly covering numerous buildings, yards, and other trees. Perhaps it was a risk for a limb to crash down during strong winds or a heavy snowstorm, perhaps it had become diseased and was rotting from within, or perhaps some low-scruples entrepreneur simply oversold his cutting services. At first I thought they were just doing some pre-winter trimming but by the end of the week the whole thing was gone.

It’s sad. There stood this huge, strong, calm, vibrant, enduring presence and now there’s nothing but sky. Someone looking there now wouldn’t even know that something so mighty and beautiful once stood there for so long, giving life to so much else.

Late Summer 2014

Late Summer 2014 – just before it disappeared forever

Nature Boy

June 30, 2014 — 1 Comment

There are so many covers of this great song (written by Eden Ahbez in 1947) but this one by Nat King Cole is surely the best. My favourite.

Life Habits

It was the feeling in my throat that spooked me the most. My neck, and particularly my throat, was constantly clenched, tight, and sore despite not having a cold or anything else obvious. I visited my doctor, an ENT specialist, and a chiropractor and none of them could point to anything specific as a cause for the persistent discomfort. Intuitively, however, I knew that it was stress related.

My job at the time, while enjoyable, combined a number of stressful factors. For starters, my field was both in web and in consumer electronics technology – a couple high-paced and demanding industries. I began as the web guy – including everything from websites and virtual worlds to social media and online campaigns – but that soon also encompassed product management on a nascent CE line. I wore at least a couple hats. The company’s headcount was also small but worldwide, which meant a daily marathon of calls, iChats, and emails. I spent my mornings in Europe, my afternoons with the Americans, and my evenings discussing specs with our manufacturing headquarters in Hong Kong. Saturday was really the only quiet day of the week. And on top of that, the economy was in the toilet and the retail giants were ruthless – which makes for frantic Sales folks and miserable Management discord. All of this I somehow came to feel in a very real way in my throat.

So I resigned. It was a big decision. The team was generally great, the pay was very good, and the opportunities were numerous. But it simply wasn’t worth my health.

And sure enough the tension in my throat dissipated soon after I moved on.

That was two years ago. This post is less about burning the candle at both ends and recognizing one’s breaking point than it is about identifying positive practical habits to not only achieve a better work-life balance but to actually become more productive, efficient, and happy overall. So in the spirit of inspiring you to live and work smarter, here’s a list of 12 things I did:

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